11 Mentors, happiness, and social glue

No. 11 – 17 February 2023

Welcome to the 11th edition of 4-TP, a weekly newsletter with the actionable insights you need.

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TPL Article

Great decision-making comes down to calling upon trusted advisors, but what to do when no one's around for advice?

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Insight

Dale Carnegie on dealing with people:

"When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion."

Micro Thought

Harvard University started a study in the 1930s to find out the reason behind human happiness and what keeps people going.

The study has lasted over 75 years (still ongoing) making it one of the most comprehensive happiness studies to date.

What the researchers found: people who were more socially connected to their community and friends were happier than others.

It becomes increasingly difficult to connect with others outside of work as we grow older, but it doesn't mean we should forgo the opportunity to meet people. You never know how someone may impact our lives.

(If you want to learn more about the study, here's the link to the TED Talk by Dr. Robert Waldinger, the fourth director of the study.)

Question

Whether it's a parent, celebrity, religious figure or philosopher, we can all use their strength and wisdom as guideposts to help us through life. Do you have a role model or mentor? Who comes to mind when you're stuck?

Till next week,
— Carlos & Stef